Planning 10							Name _________

Healthy Relationships 

Part 1 – Youth Against Violence

http://www.youthagainstviolenceline.com/index.html
1.	Give the phone number and e-mail of the Youth Against Violence Line 
2.	Is the Youth Against Violence Line equipped with call display? 
3.	What does ISV stand for?  (go to about YAVL)
4.	What can you call the YAVL about?
5.	Would you call the YAVL if you knew a student (not necessarily a friend) needed help?  Why / Why not?
Whenever there is an imbalance of power, there is potential for misuse of that power.  The power chart illustrated below is a widely used tool in workshops and trainings, depicting where power lies in our society.  Identify and list the Power Imbalances!

Powerful	Less Powerful	
		
Adult	i.e.  Children	
Men		
Rich		
White		
Boss		
Heterosexual		
Able-bodied		
Formally Educated		
Born in Canada		

Types of Abuse http://cmhc.utexas.edu/pdf/PowerControlwheel.pdf 

Abuse may be defined as the use of physical, psychological or sexual behaviour to control and maintain power over another person.  Give 3 examples of each types of abuse listed below.

Physical Abuse – give 3 examples of Physical Abuse

Psychological abuse – give 3 examples of Psychological Abuse

Sexual abuse – give 3 examples of Sexual Abuse

Dictating choice of clothing, music, hair etc.
Controlling money
Limits on contact with friends
Answer here

Name calling
Put downs
Public displays of possession
Making fun of family or friends
Answer here 

Reckless driving 
Looks and gestures
Shouting
Threatening to
reveal personal information
Answer here

Repeated and persistent phone calls
Leaving messages with others
Spreading rumours  Uninvited visits 
Answer here

Power and Control

POWER AND CONTROL WHEEL
http://cmhc.utexas.edu/pdf/PowerControlwheel.pdf 

Forcing unwanted sexual touching
Reading personal notes
Searching locker or knapsack
Answer is: Violation of Boundaries

Pressuring to choose between partner and family or friends
Pressure to quit job or change school
Answer here

Threatens to harm family
Threatening suicide
Destroying pictures & property
Answer here 

Enforcing role stereotypes
Insisting on being the boss
Expecting partener to seek permission for decisions
Guilt tripping 
Answer here

See if you can label each of the sectors in the above Power and Control Wheel with the correct elements below. One is completed for you!

	Harassment					Violation of Boundaries 	Isolation 					Limiting Independence
	Using Gender Privilege			Degradation & Humiliation 	Intimidation				Threats